Jealousy kill us

How may jealousy make you feel as if you’ve been killed?

Low self-esteem or a negative self-image might lead to jealousy.

It can be difficult to trust that your partner loves and values you if you don’t feel attractive or confident.

Jealousy can also be triggered by false expectations about a relationship.

Being blamed and mistrusted by someone you care about is a challenging and terrible experience that you can’t take for long.

They eventually flee or take a stand, begging you (the attacker) to listen to what you’re saying and accusing them of.

Being blamed and mistrusted by the one you love is a difficult and painful experience that one cannot bear for an extended  period of time.

They finally either flee or take a stand, pleading with you (the attacker) to stop and listen to what you’re saying and accusing  them of.

When it comes to jealousy, the pointer usually points to a woman, indicating that so and so lady, so and so wife, so and so girl  friend is jealous!

I’d like to clear up any misunderstandings that may have led some males to believe that I’m solely interested in women.

Men and women can both be imprisoned by jealousy and low self-esteem.

No one is exempt from experiencing genuine human emotions.

Emotions have little regard for a person’s appearance, colour, size, or gender.

There are two victims in this case, not one.

I also believe I have failed to illustrate how the other individual in a relationship suffering from envy or low self-esteem suffers as well.

A partnership is a relationship.

It’s a promise made between two individuals that we’ll stick by each other through good times and bad.

When it comes to jealousy, however, both parties are affected.

We tend to focus more on the person locked in the prison of concern than on the other person caught in the crossfire, partially because we need to free that side first before we can help heal the other.

So, I’m going to share that person’s hell jail with you as well.

Being a victim of envy is a difficult and painful experience that one cannot withstand for a long time.

victim of jealousy

A breakup is the most likely consequence over time.

They try so hard to tell you that they love you and are not interested in or lusting after anyone else time after time. They risk being attacked more for defence if they try to convince you that it’s all in your head. It’s undeniably a vicious spiral. They become so paranoid that you are certain that they have betrayed you in some way, no matter where they are. They’re all waiting for the other shoe to drop. Sometimes it takes a few days, and other times it happens right away. Regardless, they must wait and fret about when it will fall. They are afraid that they will not be able to say the appropriate thing this time. They are afraid that by saying what they are saying, we would become even more despondent and irrational.

They begin to believe that they are “damned if they do, damned if they don’t.”

That is a feeling I despise.

The thought of putting someone in that situation makes me want to flee quicker than Milkha Singh.

Your jealous insecurities’ neglect of that person is as real to them as your sensations of being locked in your prison of doubt.

There are a variety of reasons why envy arises in people, but the innocent victims are the ones who do nothing to provoke that anxiety.

When people reach the point where they have identified their problems and begun to address them, it is important to remember  the other person who is present.

Jealousy has the potential to destroy a lot of good things in one’s life.

It has the power to harm our mate, and it may murder the one thing you care strongly about via you.

The saddest part is that you let it happen.

You must come to a halt.

Would you shoot your friend with a gun?

NOT!!

So, why are you letting this emotion to torment something so precious to you?

Please appreciate your friend’s agony of being mistrusted as long as they are not responsible for your anxieties or if they have  made amends and are attempting to make things better.

They disintegrate when they see you in anguish and are informed it is due of them.

Your partner adores you as much as you adore them, and you shouldn’t blame them for your imprisoned feelings.

They feel good about themselves when they see you smile and feel completely loved because they are accountable for that grin.

That’s a fantastic sensation all around.

Also, be wary of falling into the habit of being sad as a result of jealous feelings.

Recognize where they’re coming from.

Do you use them as a means of attracting attention?

Again, the incorrect kind of focus.

If you don’t feel like you’re getting enough attention, talk to your partner.

Allowing envious feelings to take over and obscure what you’re truly trying to communicate is a bad idea.

Any mental flaw is a direct path for unpleasant emotions to go through.

Once they arrive, they work rapidly to get you what you need.

I hope that I’ve sparked some ideas in your heads about what else might be going on in a jealousy-stricken relationship.

Both sides are being torched and killed in equal amounts.

While jealousy is an unpleasant emotion, taking proactive actions to address it can often be enough to alleviate it. 
Here are some suggestions to help you overcome jealousy:
Having conversation: 
If your jealousy stems from fear of losing relationship with loved one, discussing your feelings may be beneficial. 
In close relationship, open communication can be very beneficial.
Taking step back: 
Consider your problem from the perspective of someone who isn’t involved. 
Do you have any cause to believe that if the opportunity arises, your loved one will abandon you for someone else? 
If the answer is no, understanding why you’re feeling this way on your own or with the support of therapist might be good  next step.
Learning to accept ambiguity: 
If your jealousy arises from desire to be in charge, learning to let go may help you overcome  your sentiments. 
Meditation and other exercises that allow people to focus on the present moment may be beneficial.
Honestcommunication with partners may be beneficial for people who want to avoid problematic jealousy in their relationships. 
When couples communicate their concerns, discuss any vulnerable feelings they may have, and have open discussions regarding intimate friendships with persons the other partner might perceive as danger, trust in partnership can be enhanced.
BOTTOM LINE:

We need to LIVE, LOVE, and LAUGH with each other more often.

Oh, and don’t forget about my favourite pastime…HUG.

From my heart to yours, here’s a thought:

“I am,” say it out loud “Always willing to take a chance.

I am constantly eager to learn new things.

I’m always willing to put my strength to the test, so I set my anxieties aside and simply live!”

-End-

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